Ok I'll play....Do you seriously believe that statement?
The American politicians haven't won a war since the 40s. The military has won several. I'll stick to my lifetime:
Iraq 1991 was won in weeks against one of the largest standing armies in the world stage the time with well under 200 combat losses on our side. We pushed Iraq out of Kuwait and established controls to prevent further hostilities there. Military win.
Iraq 2003 was a dumb decision, however, the military did what was asked of it and we replaced a dictator with a functioning democratic government.... which we walked away from early (thanks Obama) leaving a power vacuum for ISIS to take hold. I don't remember well enough how much that was Iraq asking us to leave vs us walking away so I won't postulate. Military win, political loss.
Afghanistan was rebuilt as a functioning democracy until the American people became tired of US troops still being there and then Trump gave up the country (didn’t learn from us leaving Iraq). We were acting as advisors helping to find remove terrorists and had no combat role from Jan 2015 on. By the way we are STILL in Germany and Japan after replacing their governments. Rebuilding a country and establishing changes takes many decades. The American people and politicians failed there, not the military. That should have been talked about as a foreign base with advisory role instead of as a combat tour as soon as we cut our combat role. It would have been more tolerable to the American people. How you talk about things matters, and our country sucks at explaining important things to the public. Military win, political loss.
In 91 we whooped em so bad we went back 10 years later to fight the same folks leadership and all. We must not have understood our own controls to prevent further hostilities because......
In 2003 we went over and wrecked a country on a lie, further destabilized the region, and ISIS took hold. Let's take another victory lap.
Afghanistan..we really were there twice once in the 80's gave them toys to get Russia out then left all our toys for the Taliban to take over the country and send it further backwards than it already was....and that's saying something. Then they appreciated our proxy victory so much 9/11 happened. Then went over in the 2000s spent god knows how much and left it to guess who....the Taliban and had people literally falling off planes on our exit. If it takes decades to rebuild countries we are in decade number 5 and they aren't any better off.
Lots of dead innocent people in the conflicts above.
You are correct that we have the coolest toys and the best trained fighters in the world. We can show up and wreck your place better than anyone in world. Then we leave it to fight again soon. We have won battles. It's not working. What we are doing only leads to more war.