Inactually agree with you. I have one thing that makes me lose all respect for someone. And that's how they treat others. For a long time I have Rob the benefit of the doubt but after time and again posting questionably racist memes and saying racist things I no longer give that benefit. Also I specifically said we when talking about Rob only talking about his family. It is a thing most Americans do. We have no sense of community unless it benefits us directly. I maintain that while it might be very minute the things that happen in our community affect us whether we admit it or not. And its biggest show it affects on us comes from the media we consume. I have been on both sides of the isle politically in my life. I and in my 43 years of life one side politically has decided they only care about a portion of the populace. I have watched people I admired and cared about go from teaching me to care about others and to treat everyone with respect and continue to do the exact opposite. And I'm not only talking family. I'm talking friends parents, old teachers and business men and women. I'm sorry that I'm so outspoken about this but it's only against those I see that always double down on what they say. I have learned so much about my life over the 3 years that I will no longer sit back and be quiet when I see people being shitty. Americans hate being uncomfortable when dealing with issues and I'll be damned if I ever let that stop me from dealing with those things ever again. I am sure I have gone at thing in the wrong way at times. And I have tried to do better with people that I see that haven't constantly chose to prove me right.You know what is unfortunate. I would guess if asked to complete a properly written and unbiased questionnaire about your beliefs on the best way forward for the country on most of these issues, I suspect you are @Rob B. would not be all that far apart. I think you would have differences, but not differences so drastic that either of you would be like "WTF, that guy is crazy."
But, despite that, in modern America, we essentially have to pick a side. Even if you avoid picking a side, someone pigeonholes you into one based on a few things you say.
And, once on a side, people then sort of defend the turf. Similar to OU fans defending Joe Mixon, even though I know many of them are not in favor of a huge man breaking a woman's face.
I sometimes wonder why @Rob B. defends the side he does the way he does. Often, if reading between the lines of what he says, it isn't really far off most of us and probably right in line with others. But, the system pushes us to a side, and here we are, divided, hateful, and not really proud of the nation that years ago was so bad-assed to say that you are from. In 1986 as an 18-year-old I took my first trip to Australia. I felt like a rock-star. "Oh, please talk to me!" "What's America like!" etc. That shit's gone.



