Thanks for being a good friend to them and their parents.Thanks for asking. They are doing quite a bit better, actually. Moved to another state for college. They found they have more independence and strength than anticipated. Getting away from their school and church helped. Their parents are Mormon, so you can imagine how that compounds things. Their parents are very loving, but were so conflicted by this. They chose to love their child but won’t condone their orientation.
Almost all their parents’ friends are Mormon. So that makes them feel judged and an outcast. Their parents told us their child felt at home with us. We have dinner with this family every Sunday night. Their child feels loved and accepted by us and considers us family.
I think having this connection with our friends and their child has made me more sensitive to these issues. When I hear “trans,” I think of a person, not a threat or a political agenda.
I wonder how many people would see this issue differently if they had a friend or family member that was trans.